A personals ad connaisseur says, "It is a waste of time to use pay sites. They trick you in entering your profile where you are think it is a free site. Only after 30-60 minutes of filling out forms you realize that you have wasted your time. Pay sites might work in large cities but not in a rural area like the Maritimes."
CapnDan says: be warned, you will be deluged with emails from horny married bottoms who want a quickie, a relationship, or a regular fuck. Depending on your inclination, this could be heaven or it could be hell.