Gerard Veldhoven

pic2016. Photo by Heather Brimicombe

Gerard Veldhoven is a long term LGBT activist who has personally advocated for increased quaity of life and human rights for the rainbow comunity. In the spirit of social justice and social change, Veldhoven has championed the rights of LGBT people in Pictou County and all of Nova Scotia. He has pioneered Pride Week festivities in more than one community where diversity and inclusiveness have been lacking.

Gerard writes in his autobiography:

Growing up in The Netherlands, a country well known for its tolerance, I realized at the age of about ten, an attraction to other boys. My first sexual experience was at thirteen with a lad who hailed from Indonesia. I pursued my encounters a few more times before it was decided we would set sail for Canada at age fourteen. This move would prove to be quite difficult as my contacts were severed and my thoughts wondered how this would manifest in a new land.

Once settled into our new way of life, I longed for sexual contacts, knowing homosexuality was illegal in Canada. This would not interfere with my attempt to reach my goal. Eventually, through school friends, I managed to succeed in my quest. So, along with a few Dutch gay friends I began a journey that would change direction.

By late 1959, I was looking for some sort of stability in my life. While hospitalized with pneumonia in 1961, I met a nurse who I eventually would marry. As a gay man I realized this to be a complete turnabout. Living in Halifax, Nova Scotia, was not precisely a comfortable place to be gay. Now, as a married “straight “ man, it became clear I dearly wished to be a father.1

On October 16, 2004, he and Norman became among the first gay men married in Nova Scotia. To his surprise, there were three clergy present for the ceremony – two United Church ministers and one Anglican.2

pic On October 3, 2020 Gerard launched his autobiography, A Passion For Equality. "Veldhoven has witnessed first-hand a gradual shift in society as gay relationships became more accepted and ultimately legalized," said the ChronicleHerald.

As the president of the Board of Directors for the Pictou County Centre for Sexual Health (PCCSH) a member-center of sexual health Nova Scotia, Veldhoven's dedication extended well beyond LGBT rights and equality. He was a volunteer on the Pride Week Committee and the Race and Discrimination Committee with the Town of New Glasgow. and wrote a weekly column on LGBT issues printed in several newspapers.

Gerard is a courageous pioneer and has been recognized provincially as a leader and progressive visionary.

Gerard's story of his immigration to Canada is here.


2. September 18, 2020 ChronicleHerald article, "First gay man legally married in Nova Scotia publishes autobiography"