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 HANKY CODES We have tried to garner as many sources as
  possible for the following codes. Although we have heard of differences
  between the colors and their associated meaning from country to country, we
  have not yet found any differences. Generally speaking, anything worn on the
  left means the wearer is a Top for the activity, on the right means Bottom.
  There is nothing to stop you from wearing any combination of colors and
  sides, if you’re into many activities. (Novices to the SM scene should note
  that there is no rule that requires you to use the hanky codes. Using them,
  however, can sometimes make meeting someone with similar interests that bit
  easier. The last four items should be taken in the fun with which they were
  intended.) While use of the codes seems to be more prevalent in the
  homosexual community, we have seen evidence of it in the heterosexual
  community, also. There is one code that has been omitted
  from the main list. It is the zip-lock bag (left has drugs, right looking for
  drugs). Given that drugs can easily impair your ability to assess risk, we’d
  recommend that you stay clear of anyone sporting a zip-lock bag, whichever
  side it’s worn.   
   
    | WORN
    ON THE LEFT |   | WORN ON THE RIGHT |    
   
    | Heavy
    SM Top | Black | Heavy SM Bottom |  
    | Leather
    Fetish Top | Leather | Leather Fetish Bottom |  
    | Bondage
    Top | Grey | Bondage Bottom |  
    | Latex
    Fetish Top | Charcoal | Latex Fetish Bottom |  
    | Fucker | Navy/Dark
    Blue | Fuckee |  
    | Cop | Medium
    Blue | Cop-Sucker |  
    | 69er | Robin’s
    Egg Blue | 69ee |  
    | Wants
    Head | Light
    Blue | Expert Cocksucker |  
    | Cock
    & Ball Torture | Teal
    Blue | Cock & Ball Torturee |  
    | Hustler | Kelly
    Green | John |  
    | Military
    Top | Olive
    Drab/Khaki | Military Bottom |  
    | Daddy | Hunter
    Green | Hunting for Daddy |  
    | Dines
    off Trick (Sex w/Food) | Lime
    Green | Dinner Plate |  
    | Catheter
    Top | Lemon | Catheter Bottom |  
    | Cums
    in Scum Bags | Cream | Sucks it Out |  
    | Spits | Pale
    Yellow | Drool Crazy |  
    | Watersports,
    Tearoom Top | Doily,
    or Yellow | Piss Freak |  
    | Rimmer | Beige | Rimmee |  
    | Two
    Looking for One | Gold | One Looking for Two |  
    | Has
    8" or More | Mustard | Wants a Big One |  
    | Two
    Tons O’ Fun | Apricot | Chubby Chaser |  
    | Suck
    My Toes | Coral | Shrimper |  
    | Anything,
    Anytime | Orange | Not Tonight, Josephine |  
    | Cowboy | Rust | His Horse |  
    | Spanker | Fuschia | Spankee |  
    | Fist
    Fucker | Red | Fist Fuckee |  
    | Dildo
    Fucker | Light
    Pink | Dildo Fuckee |  
    | Tit
    Torture | Dark
    Pink | Tit Torturer |  
    | 2-Handed
    Fister | Dark
    Red | 2-Handed Fistee |  
    | Razor
    Top | Burgundy | Razor Bottom |  
    | Likes
    Menstruating Women | Maroon,
    or Red Polka Dots | Menstruating Women |  
    | Into
    Naval Worshippers | Mauve | Has Navel Fetish |  
    | "Suck
    my Pits" | Magenta | Armpit Freak |  
    | Piercer | Purple | Piercee |  
    | Likes
    Drags | Lavender | Drag |  
    | Scat
    Top | Brown | Scat Bottom |  
    | Has
    Uncut Cock | Brown
    Lace | Likes Uncut Men |  
    | Circumcised | Brown
    Satin | Likes Circumcised Men |  
    | Actually
    Owns a Suit | Grey
    Flannel | Likes Men in Suits |  
    | Beat
    my Meat | White | I’ll Do Us Both |  
    | Shaver | Red/White
    Stripe | Shavee |  
    | Likes
    Black Bottoms | Black/White
    Stripe | Likes Black Tops |  
    | Likes
    Latino Bottoms | Brown/White
    Stripe | Likes Latino Tops |  
    | Likes
    Oriental Bottoms | Yellow/White
    Stripe | Likes Oriental Tops |  
    | Likes
    White Bottoms | White
    Lace | Likes White Tops |  
    | Wears
    Boxer Shorts | Paisley | Likes Boxer Shorts |  
    | Bestialist,
    Top | Fur | Bestialist, Bottom |  
    | Starfucker | Silver
    Lame | Star |  
    | Likes
    Bottom Musclemen | Gold
    Lame | Likes Top Musclemen |  
    | Has
    Tattoos | Leopard | Likes Tattoos |  
    | Smokes
    Cigars | Tan | Likes Cigars |  
    | Cuddler | Teddy
    Bear | Cuddlee |  
    | Chicken | Kewpie
    Doll | Chicken Hawk |  
    | Wears
    Dirty Jock | Dirty
    Jockstrap | Sucks ‘em Clean |  
    | Stinks
    (Raunch Top) | Kleenex | Sniffs (Raunch Bottom) |  
    | Gives
    Hot Motor Oil Massage | Handywipe | Wears it Well |  
    | Rides
    Motorcycle | Chamois | Likes Bikers |  
    | Bartender | Cocktail
    Napkin | Bar Groupie |  
    | Top
    for Outdoor Sex | Mosquito
    Netting | Outdoor Bottom |  
    | Negotiable | Keys | Definitely Bottom |  
    | Japanese
    Bondage Top | Rope | Japanese Bondage Bottom |  
    | Shocker | Electric
    Plug | Shockee |  
    | Abrasion
    Top | Wire
    Brush | Abrasion Bottom |  
    | Your
    Place or Mine? | Toothbrush | Your Place Only |  
    | Foot
    Fucker | Red
    Sock | Foot Fuckee |  
    | Voyeur | Sheer | Exhibitionist |  
    | Wrestling,
    No Rules | Sweat
    Band | Wrestling, Rules |  
    | Offering
    Dinner | Plastic
    Fork | Seeks Dinner |  
    | Offering
    Brunch | Celery | Out to Brunch |  
    |   | Hanky
    Around Head | Disco Injury |  
    |   | Hanky
    Around Neck | Goes Divinely With My Outfit |  
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